Oneupweb : Aaaahhh January….
January seems to be the time of year that most of us are eagerly putting our best foot forward. Having the best of intentions and wanting to make positive changes in our lives is a natural part of the yearly cycle. By December, most of us have reflected on our life and (whether we actually mentioned them out loud or not) have made vows to ourselves of what we intend to improve upon; whether that be as simple as being kinder to others, wanting to shed a few pounds, eat healthier or quit smoking makes no difference. So what happens when it is almost the end of January and we have either given up on our “new and improved life” or we are simply not trying as hard as we should? Now what?
For me, I have a much worse reality check toward the end of January. My birthday is on January 28th and I am certainly my own worst critic. Personally, I have always been a bit of a rebel (well A LOT of a rebel). I am not one to conform to others ways of thinking or doing. I have never started my annual resolution until after my birthday and I never start it on a Monday.
Almost 3 years ago, I made a resolution and I never told anyone about it. It was a resolution that millions of Americans make every year – to lose weight. In my case, it wasn’t 10, 20 or even 50 pounds I wanted to lose. It was hundreds. I could tell you how I got so heavy, but honestly, there was no excuse. I liked to eat fast food and anything unhealthy and I was fat! I was tipping the scales at over 300 pounds (yup, still too embarrassed to say the exact weight) and the plus sized stores usually did not have my size.
Over the years I made many attempts to lose weight, but I don’t think I hit rock bottom. It is like any addiction, you need to hit your personal bottom before you truly grasp reality. Mine was a variety; onset of diabetes, asthma and labored breathing (ALL the time). Finally, I stood up in my sister’s wedding (yea…my older sister – you know the type; size 2, beautiful, etc). About a month after her wedding, the family got together to view her pictures. Having known I had to go to 3 different specialty stores before I could find an undergarment that would “suck me in” enough and having gained more weight after I purchased my Maid of Honor dress, I was hesitant to view the pictures. I was a good sport and I joined in at viewing all of the pictures. Bless her heart, my mom still told me I looked beautiful. When I looked at the pictures of myself I was mortified! Did I think I looked beautiful? Um…NO! I was beyond embarrassed and disgusted at myself for the way I looked. It was then and there that my life changed. That was my bottom.
Since then, I have lost roughly 200 pounds, I no longer have diabetes or asthma and I actually (for the first time in my life) enjoy getting my picture taken…with advanced notice and if it is with my son. It is still a daily struggle and has certainly been a life change. Some days I do not even think about it, other days I just want a big, fat, juicy BURGER! All joking aside, it has been the healthiest change in my life. I am still not at my goal (though I just broke another barrier this week), and I have about 40 pounds left to lose. It will happen, I know it will!
How is your resolution going? What changes are you making? Remember, it is not only personal changes, it could be for the betterment of your company. It is January and now is the time to put your change into motion. You owe it to yourself to reflect and decide on what it is that will make your business healthier. Is it that you are not sure and need guidance? Or do you know that you do not want history to repeat itself in 2012 and you want it to progress? Our team at Oneupweb can get you started on putting your business not only back on track, but improving it and making it healthier than ever!







